How to Attract a Pisces Woman

Tips to Win Her Heart

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The Pisces woman believes in the sweeter side of love. Young Pisces are super sensitive, and vulnerable to being overwhelmed by stronger personalities.  

Pisces girls are waifs, and some are ephemeral, with an air of mystery. Her strength is her link to spirit, which sets her apart. The ones who have lost their faith deal with a lot of melancholy and are at risk for addictions. 

A Pisces in love is ultra-romantic, and forgiving, sometimes to a fault. 

A Pisces Wears Many Masks

This is the last Zodiac sign, and it contains all the archetypes. And Pisces wears many masks, and some have talent in acting. Pisces might pretend to be different people in real life, too. There's a thin line for some Pisces between reality and make-believe. 

She Is Ultra Feminine

She is ultra feminine, often curvy and tends to wear veil-like clothing, layers, scarves, and billowing blouses. Many Pisces women that wear large hoop earrings and often change their look with hats and mutable hair style and color.

Take Time to Win Her Heart

It takes time to win the heart of the Pisces woman. At first, she is all mystery, with her true nature veiled and elusive. If she looks different each time, this hints at a theatrical nature that moves easily into this or that persona.

The right lover will be at ease with this chameleon-like quality and be bewitched by it. There’s an infinite nature there to discover over time, so meeting her is the beginning of a trippy adventure. 

Cultivate the Water Element 

She can seem shy, but that is her protection from opening her sensitive heart too soon. She's a water sign, and very moody. She will slip the net of a rough or too fast pursuer. But if you have what it takes, she is a devoted, forgiving mate that never gives up on anyone. 

To get in sync with her, cultivate the water element (feelings, imagination, intuition). 

She has a big heart for the underdog, which can lead to iffy judgment in love. Pisces is a sign of sacrifice, and she can easily fall in with a dark character, just knowing he or she is good deep down. That is true, of course, but the Pisces woman may learn the hard way that trying to save drowning people, takes her under too.

Show Her You Know Her

Her nature is fluid and changeable, which makes it hard to feel a definite sense of self. Show her you know her, with gifts or gestures that are unique to what’s been on her mind and heart. This lets her know that you honor her journey, as one of being in two worlds (the natural and the supernatural), each as real as the other.

Enchant her with tickets to a whimsical theatrical production, or bands she’s in to. Make plans to go to that out of the way place with the private atmosphere. She lets her guard down in cloistered, serene places with a touch of etheric ambiance.

Be Part of Her Refuge From a Noisy, Harsh World

The ocean-sized eyes of Pisces let you know this is no ordinary woman. Often they’re watery and quick to brim with tears or twinkle with joy. She doesn’t miss anything and picks up impressions that tell her what you’re about. A kind, sincere heart is a real draw, because then she can feel safe to consider you part of her refuge from a noisy, harsh world.

Respect Her Need for Solitude

As a water sign, she’s an emotional creature and needs more solitude than most, to ride out the waves. If you love her, you’ll stand guard over her need to retreat, daydream, spend hours making art, or listening to music.

Pay Attention to What Fascinates Her

The Pisces woman is a natural artist, as someone who sees meaning in the most mundane situations. Pay attention to what fascinates her, and nourish that with thoughtful gifts, like a carefully selected mix for her iPod, for different moods.

Many Pisces women are a creative cottage industry unto themselves. See how you can support whatever they’re doing, to build confidence, to share their exquisite talents with the world.

Choose the Right First Date

Pisces first dates could be by or on the sea, at a play or concert, or an aquarium.