Sagittarius Love Tips

Sagittarians like to be in motion so fun first dates for them are active. This gives you an idea of whether you can keep up with their fast pace. The more athletic Archer likes to be challenged with endurance type tests. Keep this in mind, since their idea of fun might be more than you can physically handle. It's good to know that upfront, since it might suggest a mismatch right there.

The restless Sagittarius may want to change plans suddenly. This is hard for those that like a sense of how the date will go. Doing things on the fly is the way Sadge likes it. One suggestion is having one activity to start with, and leave the rest open. If you're too rigid about plans, this can irritate the Archer.

Some Sagittarians are explorers, some are athletes, others are knowledge seekers -- all are travelers. If you're open to learning, and having adventures, that goes far with Sagittarius. They want to have a traveling companion, with whom they can share what they've discovered.

On first dates, Sagittarius will show curiosity to know what "moves" you. What are your passions, and what experiences have you had that have changed you? The Archer is oriented toward the color of variety. Things like travel, exotic cuisine, world art traditions and crafts, appeal to the questing Sadge.

Sagittarians bring their joie de vivre into the bedroom. They're enthusiastic lovers, that don't always see emotional strings attached to what they're doing. This can set off alarms for more sensitive types, who don't trust that there's depth of emotion behind it. The Archer can be passionately present in the moment. But for some, it may just be a physical act that's pleasurable, and not signify any deepening of the relationship.

In physical relations, the Archer can take a questing attitude to sex that makes them restless for variety. They'll be bored by routine or passivity in the bedroom.

• Do keep it positive, light, upbeat.
• Do dress colorfully.
• Do show physical vitality.
• Do show generosity toward wait staff.
• Do look for the funny angle of any situation.
• Do show your sense of adventure.
• Be frank and honest.
• Do show curiosity.

• Don't try to curb their enthusiasm.
• Don't hate them because they're so positive.
• Don't be moody or negative.
• Don't moan that you're tired, and not used to all this physical activity.
• Don't be a killjoy.
• Don't be closed to spontaneous plans.
• Don't think of all the things that could go wrong.
• Don't have a closed mind.