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Win the Heart of the Aquarius Man

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Knows His Own Mind

The Aquarius man is a thinker, and loves to be stimulated by the unexpected. He's drawn to your eccentricities and original opinions, so don't hold back. Born under the planet of shocks and futuristic thinking (Uranus), he's bound to have some ideas that seem "out there." It's wise to keep an open mind, if you're wanting him as a mate.

Aqua man is friendly and big-hearted, but there's a sense that he's always just a bit out of reach. He's lost in his thoughts, or goes missing for days on end. He's got his own moral code, which might include other partners, so be sure you're on the same page. I've known more than a few to be surprised to find their Aquarius had other "friends." For some that's just spreading the love around -- but if it's not your understanding, that leads to quite a shock.

The Aquarius man can be a trendsetter, an absent-minded Professor type, a quirky genius, and much more. He's progressive by nature, but is known to have stubborn opinions. This makes sense when you consider the co-ruler, Saturn, and his love of structure and order. This is the paradox -- he rebels against fixed ideas, but can be maddeningly blind to his own.


The detached air sign Aquarius man is a free agent, and even when committed, keeps a sense of separateness. For the right lover, this is liberating, with room to change every which way. He will treat you like a friend first, so be sure you enjoy his companionship.

This is someone with the upper limit of friends on social media, and there can be times when you feel one in the crowd. He can seem "lost to you" at times, which is tough on more sensitive hearts. Many Aquarians are in committed relationships, but it's in their nature to engage with the many, or to vanish by themselves.

So how to win his heart? Be utterly fascinating and engaged in your own creations. Have an open mind, and let him be who he is. Don't get too emotional or intense.

Make your first commitment to pushing always into new ground. Avoid talk of commitment. If this doesn't sound like you, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. The Aquarius man of all people understands that and will probably wish you well on your way!

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