Don't Be Boring
The Aries woman is confident and loves the sexual tension of early romance. It's fair to say newness thrills her, and she hits the ground running in love. First dates go long into the night, with her total engagement in the moment. She is energized when pushing at her own limits. Great dates are activities of trying something new - from paddleboating to sailing or tango.
You get far when you show what you're passionate about. She admires those who do for themselves. So the self made man (or woman) is very appealing. Pique her interest with tales from your best moments, when you took a risk, or fought and won.
Predator and Prey
Let's be honest -- the Aries woman has a low tolerance for insecurity. A 'fake it 'til you make it' strategy won't work, because her nature is to provoke, and even play on your weaknesses. For some, it feels like teasing, but to others, it's enough to go on the defense.
If you're falling for an Aries woman, be prepared to be challenged. This is her nature, and if you can't take the heat, it's best to leave the kitchen early. If you're up for it, a love affair with an Aries woman will be full of adventures, vigorous "fights," fierce love, excitement, and the feeling that it's always new.
It’s not a good idea to bond with the Aries woman by revealing your vulnerabilities. Some women like to ‘mother’ men, but that won't work here. The Aries woman wants a hero and many like man's men. Many Aries women like to do things typically considered masculine, like competitive sports events. She's often one that can hang with the guys.
But like every sign, she defies stereotype, and there are surely as many artist-Aries types as there are the ones that go for martial arts or kickboxing. Whatever she's into, she wants to be the best at it. The right one will admire her gutsy way, and encourage her to shine big.Flashing Emotions
The Aries woman is quick to anger, but quick to let it go, too. She's generous with those she loves, and thrives on inspiration. If she's bored, it'll show, and that's a slippery slope to an abrupt end.
The Aries nature is to be very animated and self-directed. She wants to know she can stand on her own two feet. She responds to encouragement, but isn't big on sentimental, emotion-laden attention. She's quick and passionate, and will come alive if you are too.
If you're someone with your own big dreams, and the will to make them happen, that'll pique her interest. If she suspects you want to control, smother or any other way put out her fire, she'll want out. A good match is someone who is confident in his masculinity, and isn't freaked out by a woman wholly self-centered (centered within herself).