The Gemini man flirts indiscriminately, because he's naturally so social and curious. It's not hard to make his acquaintance, and he has loads of friends. He may date many at one time, giving him a reputation of being a bit of a player. Especially when young, he prefers to keep things casual and light. Keep this in mind if you're looking for marriage material. He's the eternal bachelor reveling in his freedom of motion.
He's a whirl of activity when first dating. He'll know all the best places to go and what's happening around town. He'll want to know everything about you, and is an easy conversationalist. To impress, he'll tell funny tales or show off his observations about art, culture, politics, people. You'll win his heart if you genuinely think he's smart and hilarious.
He's on the move, so it helps if you're adventurous too. He'll come up with new things to do, but if you are hooked up, it doubles the fun. Scan your weekend listings for something out of the ordinary; he's lit up by the exotic or eclectic. If you live in a small town, try improvising as a spontaneous twosome. One Gemini guy I know and his date wore all red and ate red food on red plates. Be absurd and on the fly, and see what happens.
The Gemini guy's turn off is a closed, rigid mind. He changes his own mind a lot, which makes him seem sketchy. But it's the nature of Gemini to sift and sort, and rearrange the picture. To share a rapport with him, you'll need to be a free thinker, willing to see things from many angles. This is crucial for a love connection, since he'll want to share a running commentary that spills out unedited, and is always changing.