There he is at the bar, checking his iPad for messages, but eyes darting around taking in the scene. Gemini man is mercurial, and the short exchanges of texts and emails makes him feel caught up in a real social whirl. He's always alert for messages, being Mercury-ruled, which gives him a distracted look at times.
The frantic busyness of life today suits his nature, and he likes to be in motion. For first dates, check out a few places, and different modes of transport -- walk, bike, taxi, train. A richly varied night is preferred to staying put in one intimate spot.Man of the World
Consider that his mission is to cast a wide net, absorbing info from everywhere, and synthesize it into new forms. This is his unique magic. Say things to pique his curiosity. Throw out interesting factoids that connect to your passion.
He's drawn to people that have a healthy interest in life and other people. He'll want to know who you're connected to, and what they're like. If you can see the humor in work or family interactions, and spin a tale, this could be entertaining.Changeling
Does his Gemini personality make him untrustworthy? Not necessarily, but he could seem inconsistent -- and this makes it hard to know where you stand. He is one person today, and another tomorrow. The Gemini man can be calculating, and seemingly cut off from his emotions at times. In a funk, his thoughts are dark. If he's in a cruel state-of-mind, and you're in his sight lines, watch out.
It's harder for emotionally sensitive types to deal with his erratic moods. That's why he clicks with fire signs and other air signs best.