How to Win the Heart of a Taurus Woman

Entering the Garden

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The Taurus girl is earthy and no-nonsense. She's impressed by real achievement, not big empty talk or name dropping. 

Taurus in love takes her time since she's in sync with nature. She likes to settle into the moment, and won't like to be rushed here and there. 

The Taurus gal is often curvy and may struggle with her weight if she's experienced a lot of social programming to be thin. She loves to indulge, but may fall into gluttony, and generally, too much of a good thing in some area. 

Taurus is a fixed sign, making her a lover that wants stability, perhaps materially. Some might size you up as a wealth creator, or show respect if you demonstrate that you make the most of what you've got. Taurus admires those that do something with their natural gifts, and work hard — and play hard. 

Venusian Taurus

The Taurus woman is ruled by Venus, and it shows. Her way is to live close to the garden, as a sensualist, who savors the moments. Keep this in mind for early dates that create sensory impressions — sights and smells that you can return to again and again. The memory evoked by a smell, like when you gave her a fresh gardenia, can become something special, for example.

She's likely to appreciate flowers, especially if they're still in pots, so she can plant them in her garden. She leans toward the natural, so consider that when gifting the Taurus woman. Natural fiber clothing, earthy scents, stone jewelry, herbal tonics, and teas.

It's a good sign when she invites you for dinner at her place. Chances are, she's got a full spice rack, and is prepared to tantalize your palate. You'll impress her if you chose a restaurant that's atmospheric, cozy, and with thoughtfully prepared food. If you're a foodie too, you'll enjoy impressing her in your own kitchen.

What is her Venus sign? This gives you further clues to how to win her heart and what she finds attractive. It also reveals what she values. And for Taurus women, she wants to live her values. The word venerate, hold up as valuable or honorable, comes from her ruler, the love planet. 

Staying Power

Though the Taurus woman might seem easy-going, she's looking for substance in life and in love. She wants to know she's making a wise choice on something that'll last. She loves to live well and comfortably, and security is high on her list. This gives her a realist's attitude in love, as she sizes up the potential for combining your lives (and prospects or assets).

Taurus is the slow and steady sign of the Zodiac. This comes across early on, as she takes her sweet time getting to know you. She'll be seeing what you value, and how solid you are before she closes the deal.

The Taurus woman is loyal, and she expects the same commitment back. She wants someone to build a life together from the ground up. But she's likely to be very into self-sufficiency, and knows how to make the most of what's she's got.

Money is a focus for many Bulls because it represents value and the ability to enjoy life. Her life path is to acquire and build up, and that includes material wealth. She's a lover of leisure but knows that working hard reaps the rewards she's looking for.

She'll be drawn to qualities of self-reliance and someone who generates abundance. This bodes well for those who make the most of their natural talents and material resources and are geared toward full enjoyment of what they bring. Life is good with a Taurus woman, and there's usually something sweet-smelling coming from her kitchen.

Most Sensual?

What's outstanding about earthy Taurus is the close intimacy with the creaturely self. You might be surprised how natural your Taurus date is about her appetites, both with food, luxuries, and with her sexuality. 

She's liable to be uninhibited and really impressive with her relishing of the moment. This, in turn, will motivate her lover to do the same. 

That same sensuality puts Taurus in the comfort zone, and that in turn can lead to inertia... Taurus can get depressed, and feel lazy, and guilty for not making the most of their life. 

This is a sign that likes to relax, but also to feel productive. If you foster confidence in her gifts and encourage effort, she'll see you as a cheerleader for a satisfying life. That's the best way to win over a Taurus woman.