Upside: Sensual and passionate; similarly self-controlled; concerned with public appearance; private; deeply intuitive; ambitious; natural with sexuality.
Downside: Stubborn entrenchment in arguments; power struggles; resentment; working too much.
Scorpio and Capricorn are soulful lovers, once you prove yourself worthy. The standards are high from the get-go, which makes it better for first dates to be put out there as casual. There's a screening process with both signs, to gain higher levels of security clearance. Scorpio likes more intimate (covert) meetings, while Capricorn is more at home in a public place, like a cafe.
The details of where and when might sound like a negotiation. But once there's a meeting, and there's physical attraction, things unfold organically. Both signs have an ease with physical pleasure, and are able to give in body and soul to the sensual moment. Water sign Scorpio and earth sign Capricorn find deep intimacy on every level, as things progress. Water and earth are sensual, receptive and affectionate, and both tend to be deeply loyal.Mission Control
Scorpio and Capricorn are anchored deep within, and often come across as "hard to get to know." They're cool characters, especially when first getting to know someone.
The shared traits of reserve and natural wariness of others actually works in their favor. Picking up on this mutual fortress, they take their sweet time during the courtship phase. Neither wants to play games, and are matter-of-fact about their interest, yeah or nay.
Initially, emotions are meted out in understated ways, and they put out subtle hints with looks and gestures. Love grows slowly between such formidable natures, taking care to keep dignity, respect and trust intact.Commitment
While dating, they discover someone as driven to succeed as they are. Both need pursuits to engage in, big careers to hitch all that ambition onto. As romance unfolds, each subtly locks in as part of the foundation for what the other wants to achieve. They share a determination to commit to patient, steady achievement. And in the other, they find a champion, and a loyal partner to settle in with for the long haul. That's why you see so many Scorpio-Capricorn power couples.
The practical outlook of Scorpio and Capricorn means they're looking for a return on their investment. They see in the other someone to build a life with, that'll deepen over time.
Because of its intensity, Scorpio can often flare up over an issue, and stay locked into dramas that stir up trouble. Capricorn is the voice of reason, offering a stone cold sober analysis of what's really going on. This helps Scorpio gain perspective. In the cozy intimate spaces, Scorpio draws out the Goat from its earthen cave. Capricorn's natural sensuality and depth of emotion comes out in the atmosphere of trust they've created.
When it's a love connection, these two enjoy the best of both worlds -- private and public. Scorpio should avoid trying to control Capricorn, who will respond with its own indignant fury.
Both signs experience deep melancholy, or are overcome by outrages. Scorpio lures the world weary Capricorn back out, with penetrating insight into any situation. The shared humor is subtle, dark (gallow's humor), sometimes caustic, often nuanced. They are apt to "get" each other's humor, and build on it with their own witty aside.
They're a couple that finds worldly power sexy, and thrive when they support the others steps to mastery. But in the relationship, the model of shared power works best, and when that delicate balance is in place, this is an enduring match.