What You're Like...:
You bring an original, totally independent outlook to relationships. There's a good chance that you'll date a wide spectrum of people. The social label on them by race, class, religion, is as ephemeral to you as someone's hair color. This gives your love life the look of unconventionality, and you may end up shocking people in the process.
The Venus Aquarius Woman defies convention. A man with Venus Aquarius respects free thinkers, and women who let their freak flag fly! In same gender relationships, this is the Venusian expression, of the feminine, creativity and being in love with life.
Quality and Element:
In Love and Romance:
You need a lot more space than most people, and won't want to be bound up, or merge, or anything codependent like that. You're a sampler, and a friendly group-oriented person that feels more at home in a small clique. It's important to be with someone whose mind is as quirky as yours, and that won't judge your far-out ideas. You may appear aloof when dating, since the intimate encounter is at odds with your nature. But you'll respond to an intelligent, fair-minded person that lets you go off on your own most of the time.
It's possible that you're a member of a few different groups, clubs or cliques of like-minded people. You might even meet a lot of people through activism, since you don't shy from promoting a cause you believe in. At the same time, you're an emotional loner, and might balance the two by being alone in a bustling, active place. Friends probably consider you fair, completely non-judgemental and with your own take on everything. You have a soothing effect on the unbalanced, and may be a magnet for the outcasts and eccentrics. You're admired for treating everyone with the same respect.
You're likely to conjure up something that doesn't exist yet. This makes you ahead of your time in the realm of creativity. It's important to follow your inspiration, despite what mainstream art and culture of the day is promoting.
The Big Attraction:
You get noticed because you're so off-beat and original. And people respect the way you stand up for justice, or champion the underdog, even if it puts you in the line of fire. It's easy to be with you because you're not going to get critical or bring up the emotional past. You seem to dwell above that, and this lends your relationships a sense of space and respect. You're never boring, since you respond in a spontaneous way to each moment. The right mate is not threatened by your indpendent nature, and doesn't need a whole lot of emotional reassurance or structure in the relationship.
Winning Your Heart:
You're attracted to those that are quirky individuals in their own right. Above all, you're looking for an intellectual rapport, someone you can take journeys of the mind with. The background is not important, and you may end up with someone from a very different culture. You'll thrive with a mate that lets you go out with all your other friends. You're looking for a partner that's your number one friend among many. You don't want a conventional life, and might shy away from marriage until later in life.
Famous People with Venus in Aquarius:
Nicolas Cage, Yoko Ono, Glenn Close, Elton John, James Joyce, Sharon Stone, Bruce Willis, Emily Watson, Cybill Shepard, Nick Nolte, Carmen Miranda, Ricky Martin, Gary Oldman