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Virgo and Virgo Love Compatibility

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Upside: mutual devotion; demure lovers; sensual in each other's arms; healing together; partner yoga; health enthusiasts; sincere; patient; thrive in settled relationships.

Downside: Hyper-critical; high-strung (hard to relax); work oriented to a fault; shy or insecure.

Element and Quality Mutable Earth

Two Virgins

Virgo and Virgo magnetize the natural traits of this lovable earth sign. And, it must be said, two Virgins make for a whole lot of finely tuned relating.

It comes with a family pack of what Virgo does in volume -- analyzing, criticizing, self-improvement planning, organizing, fretting.  Two Virgos could amplify the nerves of the sensitive nervous systems.  But only another Virgo understands what it takes to stay 'pure' and what drives the Virgin to stay "whole unto themselves." 

This can be a perfect love, as long as the Virgin realizes that perfecting the self in love, is a worthy direction, but not a destination. 

Precision Dating

The dating period is tender and tentative, and both arrive on the dot. There's a concern for etiquette in the beginning that lends some refinement to what can be an awkward time. Virgo needs lots of reassurance, and this is something they offer each other, as a way to build trust.

They admire the clean-as-a-whistle physical presence, and offer the same "virginal" landscape, though we all know Virgo is a very earthy, sensual sign. Once there is intimacy, these two have the skills to satisfy, and open up to earthly pleasures together.

At home, the Virgo stereotype of being tidy finds full expression, and together they can keep making refinements. They'll both want to live simply, sensibly and as close to natural elements as possible. They're a couple that may want to live 100% organic, and may have an interest in gardening. But they'll need to take breaks from the self-improvement agenda, or risk crowding out spontaneity.

Control Freaks

Virgo's dark side is the tendency to be the constant critic, which actually comes from a gift -- the ability to see what needs changing. The Virgo-Virgo couple will need to cultivate acceptance for who they are at any given moment.

Too much emphasis on the plans for progress can put them in high stress mode, and tax an already nervous system.

Hobbies and Games

It's important for them to find ways to relax and be in the moment, and go off in the country for a change of scenery. All work and no play makes them stressed out, and too tense to stop and smell the roses along the way. Both need lots of solitude to find wholeness again, and that's another key to making the relationship work.

Virgos love to learn and often have many hobbies that involve daily practice.  Virgo is a mutable sign, making it one geared to sampling activities, "trying your hand" at something. 

Cultivating these together, especially when it's fun, too, is love superglue.  If you've grown apart, look for new challenges that thrill you both, and sign up for a class or intro session. 

Virgo and Virgo Love Story

Virgo Virgo

"I've been w. him almost 3 years. Hes an awesome person! We bring out the best in eachother.. But because hes a leo/virgo cusp & I'm a complete virgo we tend to differ. I have a libra moon I'm really fun to be with, & am kind of a lazy person.. He helps me become a better person. I Believe much in loyalty & two virgos will be bring Much loyalty. He's my bestfriend, I'm never bored. I feel that if you're a fun person, then you simply can't be bored. Hes my dream guy, I feel like I love him. We've had our ups & downs but it made our relationship so great. Be careful though, two Virgos can sometimes bring the very worst in each other if they're too much alike. :) Hope this helped .. xoxo Peace"

—Guest BabyGirl

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