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aquqrius girl cancer man

I've been with my cancer man for three months now. Can I say I'm in love? Yes I am. He's So smart and he makes me think about a lot of things that I'm doing. He makes me a stronger person. This is my second time in my life being in love and I can say that I think I want to marry this cancer man. I love when he gets jealous and I love it when he tells me its time to go home from the bar. I like not being in control for once in my life. I love it. Cancers are the best
—Guest lover

Aquarian girl, cancer guy

I JUST started dating my cancer boy. He's the biggest sweetheart, and a totally gentleman. Reading our compatibility made me nervous, because I am hard to tie down and he is a little needy. But I'm sure it will work. He gets a little jealous and worried about me for ridiculous reasons, and it makes me pull away a little. We have different interests, and he's definitely for feminine ad in touch with his emotions than I am. But I'm sure we'll both get something out of the relationship. Maybe a sweet cancer guy is all an aquarian girl needs, when it comes to a committed relationship. (:
—Guest Jenny

Our love keep us together

It will make a lot difference to a cancer-aquarius relationship.  Like I said once u appreciate each others similarities ur relationship will work and goes on smoothly. There still arguments here and there but for us even how difficult to handle sometimes but when both of u love each other and can't live without each others arms u will be together forever. 
—Guest YssaVince

Our love keep us together

I learn how to play video/online games with him and we had fun n help each other, watching more action movies sci-fiction discovery channel and all those kind of stuff which is ok for me since I love reading books but for him he likes watching it instead rather than reading.  He also discovers my artistic side since I'm into arts, drawing, crafts, my obsession into fashion make-up and all kind of stuff he supported me as well like how I appreciate his hobbies. Aquarian guy is rebellious I'm telling u so if ur dating an Aquarian guy u have to comprise each other n know him very well. Coz if u like to control him or giving him a lot of restrictions it will not work he will be rebellious n u most likely to get hurt. For a cancer woman like me I know u like to be treated like a queen and love always but being with an Aquarian guy for a long time learned how to control my emotion. Aquarian guy still needs to show their sincerity of their love time to time.
—Guest YssaVince

Our love keep us together

I like everything is fair so no complaints and I'm easy to talk to which my husband loves about me. So we did that and it went well. Then we always make sure we have also quality time just the two of us on our off days ,after work or whenever were both free. My husband is very adventurous while me I'm very conservative and rarely doesn't like dangerous stuff but I learned so much from him n finally I was out of my comfort zone. I learned to appreciate what he loves likes. Like he's into motorcycles and cars, video games etc. I wasnt agree with his motorcycle thing coz it's dangerous but then I gave him limits which is fine to him as long he's safety will come first. I even goes with him with their monthly car greet and meet.
—Guest YssaVince

Our love keep us together

So I have misinterpret that sometimes but once u know how you aquarians man how he can express himself to u... U will get to know him more just have an open mind.   Me as a Cancer I like to see it visually or emotionally when it comes to expressing love. Though my husband is more affectionate in private rather than in public which I want him to show that more to me. Before I don't really know his traits but Aquarian guy loves to go out he likes his Space and sometimes he's out of reach which I hated and I'm totally opposite to him me I'm fine just staying at home and likes to go out too but I do have limits to myself. But once both of u compromise and accept ur differences the relationship will work and last. As a cancer it's very tough for me but we talk about it so I gave him he's freedom like his Space too like going with his friends once in a while but if course has a limit and I have my own Space too as well which I can Also do what I love either doing some arts and crafts, girls
—Guest YssaVince

Our love keep us together

. Which is its hard for him to handle me sometimes coz my husband doesn't like it when i'm being sensitive or emotional he doesn't handle it well he's more irritated and one if the reason why he have misunderstanding sometimes and as of me I don't get it why he doesn't understand me. But after that he will comfort me when he knows I was really hurt. They Also don't like confrontation or hard to talk to sometimes especially when it comes to problems but once they realizes their mistakes he will come to you. Just give him space and time to think coz once u rush him or nag him it will become worst coz they don't like pressure.   Aquarius doesn't know how to express their loves sometimes like my husband he shows his love to me in different way and sometimes I don't see or feel that but to him that's how he express his love to me by doing simple things to me and I sometimes see it he's just doing it as his responsibility but for him he's expressing his love for me.
—Guest YssaVince

Our love keep us together

I'm a Cancer and my husband is Aquarius. We've been together for almost 10 years  And been married for  5 years going 6 this year. Our relationship has ups and downs, we have a lot of differences that often times can cause arguments but those things make us stronger as a couple and I believe it's our love who keep us together because to tell you the truth being with a aquarius man is very difficult to understand him what he wants most of the time.  It takes a lot of patience, care, understanding and love to be with him. But then he has this personality that makes me wants him more that I can't leave him for some reason I know he loves me but he rarely show that sometimes and  As a Cancer woman U mostly want him to show you that and I sometimes feel like I wasn't love but as u guys know cancer are very emotional, sensitive and moody most of the times. Which is its hard for him to handle me sometimes coz my husband doesn't like it when i'm being sensitive or emotional he doesn't handle i
—Guest Yssavince

Ehh.. I guess..

I'm an an Aquarius girl and well I been with my Cancer guy for at least two weeks. I can already see that we both have some differences. I'm more unemotional around him and don't give him all the attettion. He always wants me to open up and to confront things when.. well.. I'm not one to do that all the time. I rather just let the problem be and talk about it later. He makes me think.. I like that. I love how he wants me know how beautiful I am and how wonderful I am in his eyes. I swear.. I'm becoming addicted to him. I know I'm more needy than I usually am cause I alwa y want him around, even when he has to work. I desire him like no other and it drives me crazy how much I want him around. He also has this thing where when he makes a sweet remark that I should respond back... I just don't cause I never know what to say. I just get stuck and then he gets fustrated cause He can get into my head but I can't get into his.. But like I told him.. Its to soon in the relationship to tell..
—Guest Wolf

love at first sight

Ive been with my aquarian man for 3 1/2 yrs. It started off as a friendship/sexual relat. We pretty much fell for each other in the beginning. Hes put me thru alot. But have such a strong bond many tried 2 break. When we have a problem we usually alwayz talk it out and come 2 agreement. We r both strongly opioninated ppl. Alot of times thats where we clash. But othee than that we have 90% things in common/ dislike. Make each other laugh always, bestfriends, great lovers,
—Guest meant for each other

Ignore signs it creates problems.

I'm a Cancerian and my boyfriend is Aquarius, we've been together for about 3 years, yet things with us are good, I will admit in the past it wasn't as my over sensitive side came out and need for attention, but I learnt from that and decided I should change, Now I can happily say I have learnt to control the moodiness, it can be done guys! :), so all this star sign stuff isn't made in stone. I love him alot :) and feel no need to look elsewhere.
—Guest Cancerian Woman

Against All Odds

I'm a Cancer he's an Aries, I'm 40 and he's 24. When we first got together, there was a lot of back and forth, tugging and pushing, neither one of us wanting to fully reveal how we truly felt. There was definite attraction and sexual energy but because I had been down this road before, I was very hesitant. Because this was all new to him, so was he. We both tried to fight it, I know I did. We argued over nothing, bickered and fought constantly because we were falling in love and didn't know how to handle it. He's my best friend, my lover, my everything and regardless of the difference in age, we connect. He's the most mature man that I've ever dealt with. He makes me feel like a million bucks with just one touch. Regardless of the odds, we both realize that with patience, communication, understanding and love, we can overcome anything and we have. I love him.
—Guest AgainstAllOdds

fallin for love

i am an aquarius woman born on february 2th and my friend guy thats about to be bf is an cancer born on july 2th we have been talkin about a week now it like when he talk to me i get close and close to him i can feel myself comin on to him it like i dont know what to say is that i am fallin for him and how he talk to me i can tell that he really like me to and that he is feelin me from were i am comin from .,..;/;./ all i can see is love right now and hopein it stay this way befor i say YES .;;'[;../
—Guest let's see how it go's

It's ... Complicated, but loving.

I'm a cancer woman and my boyfriend (Aquarius) and I are still in the beginning stages of our relationship. It's only been a few months, but it's been intense. It often times ceases to make any since to me. I must admit, we have our differences, but they balance out with our similarities. So far it's been fun, stressful, and very passionate. This relationship is one of thee most complicated aspects of my life, and yet, because of it's complications, it provides me with this sort of mental stimuli that keeps me interested. We decided from the very beginning that our relationship was going to be something unconventional, and we also decided that we will get through all the random cases if Bull Vomit together. I believe we all experience love differently, it's just a matter of what works for you. If two people both have the determination to make a complicated situation work, everything will work out in the end... For the most part ;)
—Guest Markie

Confused ...

im an Aquarius , he's a Cancer - been together for about 6 months and I could homestly say im lost in this relationship . he as a cancer has a very odd way of showing things and he tends to hide majority of his emotions. we argue but never really bad, no yelling amd screaming . he makes things a bit difficult to stomach sometimes . like we would be fine and happy as every for lets say two weeks and then the next thing I know he's giving me the cold shoulder . ignoring me and when im around him I feel a bad vibe . not too sure how much more I can take but I love'em and im trying to stay by his side but he lacks alot of relationship qialities like affection, attention, and passion . but lets just wait and see how it goes ...
—Guest Love Lost

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