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I am a pisces female and was in a relationship with a pisces male for almost five years. In the beginning we were instantly drawn to each other. Seriously, we were like magnets. Our relationship was intensely emotional and deep. But I tend to be a little more down to earth than most pisces (I blame my moon in libra) and Im pretty damn anti social. His ridiculously large group of friends was always a problem because of my introversion and jealousy. Also, he was quick to get angry and block me out of his mind completely (I blame his moon in capricorn). We had our problems, but i wouldnt say it was a bad match. I think a pisces/pisces relationship definitley has the potential to work well, you just have to be the right pairing of pisces. As for me, I think someone a little different would suit. Maybe a saggitarius...
—callypso0

Pisces Parents & Scropio Son

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years going three. We have had our ups and downs like any typical relationship. I love him. & our son. We are a happy family
—Guest Emma

Hopeful

I don't think you should sit and let your zodiac do the work...you must put forth effort to make it last.... I met my male pisces a little over a year ago through mutual friends. He is an emotional person, which I am not use to having tolerance tho--but I have an odd pull towards him, and understanding of his needs that it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure it is my nurturing side that makes me more interested or his ability to show and express his feelings with me that I love... We are not in a relationship due to current distance, but we have discussed moving towards a more serious relationship in the near future. I believe things could work out for us eventually. We're both born on the Aquarius/Pisces cusp and seem to be understanding of the others feelings. Instead of being quick tempered with him, I sense his anger/current emotion and quickly adapt to it...It's almost as if we are already one...Only time can tell where this will go in the near future.....
—Guest Loving Pisces

Feels like it was meant to happen.

My girlfriend is originally from germany, and about a year and a half ago moved here for a foreign exchange au pairs (basically an in-home nanny) program. 3 months later there was a huge halloween parade in my town, where we happened to run into each other. We were both with a few of our friends who were all drunk, but the two of us were (mostly) sober and couldn't stop staring at each other. She lives about an hour and a half from me but I love her so much the last year has been amazing and its only getting better. She's the first person I've ever met that I can just completely open my mind to, I've never felt so close to anyone.. its almost scary its like were 2 halves of a much more functional whole.
—Guest Frozay

is it tru love or a curse

Well Im a pices woman and we love each other im thirtyone and he's 25 and he makes me laugh and he makes me cry were the same but were are different we still together going stronger than ever so hope for us we do good cus I love my husband
—Guest sexy pices

Trying to break the bond

I to was married to a pisces man.in the beginning it was wonderful but things took a ugly turn . I do feel like the bond between us will never be matched with another sign. He became verbal and some physical and mental. Very strong temper! I'm divorced and still can't break away the ties with this man . I seen the warning signs in the beginning and thought his jealous ways would go away... Not. I understand when the other post said about soulmate... He was totally what I didn't want in a soul mate!
—Guest Annie

Slippery when wet.

My experience of a pisces + pisces relationship. The other person worked hard at a job and we lived a hundred km away from each other. He was not good at swimming against the current and wanted something typically codependent. How irresponsible! Problems that would otherwise be manageable turned into massive snowballs very quickly, even with my good communication skills. This stemmed from him having a need to feel nurtured by someone else because he was hopeless at nurturing himself. The emotionally neediness and confusion just fed back into the relationship arena and caused him to slip away. Instability caused confusion which caused mistrust and the cycle of instability perpetuated itself in his fragile little brain. At first my belief was that it was going to be fantastic and I would be right if I had chosen a more emotionally responsible, mature and switched-on pisces. Which is why I am going to do it again! Without his shortcomings I'd say pisces + Pisces is instant win material..
—Guest Michael

So sad

I too was married to a piscean, for 10 years, but right from the beginning it was not good, he did not make me feel content, secure and happy. But the bond we have, it just won't go away. No matter how hard I try we always come back to each other. Are we needy? is that it. Because I don't love him as such anymore and I don't respect him but we still have this bond which is so strong.
—Guest bumblebee

the strongest i ever felt but doomed

right off the bat we fell. things where great we always seemed it be in touch with each other's feelings and dreams... however this ended up being our down fall. we wanted the exact thing right down the line. we knew right off the bat when one of us was down. but with wanting the same thing we where always up set that neither would give it, not the fact it was a power thing no how can you give someone something when you want it so bad your self. also we needed time apart and being a pices we need time with the each other we are two fish and will always need that other fish around. it just wasn't a great match. was great at first but was so bad at the end. i wouldn't recommend this to anyone.
—Guest Joe

Still going

Pisces and Pisces relationships are the best ever. In fact, i'm in love with one now. But the bad thing is, we live in different places. We do know what the other person looks like; he's a real beauty. I'm only twelve; but hey, you can fall in love any age. It's like through the phone, i'm looking through the depths of his eyes and all i see is love. He doesn't really know too much about the zodiac or infact pisces (which we both are) but i always tell him that the reason why we have such an inspiring relationship is because of our signs and our sensibility between each other. He's all the good and me and thats one of the reasons why i'm alive today. He's my best friend and i just cant wait until we meet so we can make it official and i'll acutally REALLY look into the depths of his eyes and say "this is the guy i know is now officially mine." Thank-you
—Guest Pisces girl for life

strange mix

I dated my pisces boy. That all was SO romantic and so real. I remember how we layed in his bed, hand in hand,looking into each other eyes,listening to calming music..that was so good. After 7 months together I went crazy about everything he do.(in bad meaning) he smoked cigarettes and weed, he drank a lot. I went crazy about EVERYTHING. even about his friends and hobbies. Then he started to put all those things infront of me, like i'm nothing. (thats my fault though)..my friends keeped to say me that i need to leave him before its too late, but i didnt. i just couldn't made a disicion. I left him so many times but we always went togehter again. i cried alot. after a year i was so damaged, i went to one party and made out with one other guy. i was so in love with him, and all the love with my bf was gone. I was afraid to tell him that.. so then passed one more year. We broke up. 2 years. Now when he is alone,he realises how much he needs me. he's sweeter than ever..but my love is gone.
—Guest fishy

Great Memories but Sad Ending

I had a relationship w/ a piscian too.. We had a ups and downs, but we still manage to keep our love strong. But after a 1 misunderstanding w/ her and my parents, she have to make me to choose who's my priority; my parents or her? I've chose my parents and after that our great love had gone. But until now I still hoping to be with her.
—Guest NivraM

Bad Fate

Well, what I mean about bad fate is, me and this woman was talking on the internet, and we had soooo much in common. We chatted for hours. Unfortunately she lived so far away. But things were going good anyway. EVERYTHING, we talked about we liked. She was gorgeous! She seemed so.. PERFECT. When we were chatting, I didn't have a car.. Later, when I finally got my car.. Things went down hill.. Work hours was overwhelming, and I had less time to myself, and for my online girlfriend. Alot of circumstances and situations happened, and bad events tore us apart, with no fault from either of us.. It's like, nature didn't want us to be happy. I felt guilty, and thought, if I did anything different.. I might be with her today.. Sob! Sob! Sob!
—Guest Oakowi

good/bad

well i have had a relationship with an othoer pisces and dont get me wrong it has been beautiful but at the same time it was hard becuase we clashed alot...we are still godd friends and yet we still clash till this day...but we still have that strong feeling with one another
—Guest chantel

So far so good.

I am sorry to hear that the pisces/pisces combination was not a good one for Diva29. But in my experience, being with a fellow piscean has been the best choice I ever made. Believe it or not, we keep each other grounded and our extreme empathy intensifies our love. He keeps me sane in a tumultuous world and he calms my soul. I do not know if I subscribe to the belief in soulmates, but if this is the person who makes you laugh, comforts your tears, screams with you in frustration, sends you over the edge and brings you back to an ethereal existence and every thing in between, then maybe I have met mine. Perhaps we work because he's not 100% Pisces and I am Pisces who was born in the year of the Tiger. I do not know for sure, but I do feel that out of all the zodiac combinations I have tried to date, this one is the best.
—Guest Guest Ms. A

Hell

My boyfriend of 7 years and the father of my Son, Is not what I expected the relationship to unfold to. We are 2 days apart both 29 years old and the complete opposites, It started off well but turned into a nightmare and I'm just now 7 years later not afraid of the monster. I had a very unhappy past before he came along. And he added to the unhappiness, by throwing everything I shared with him about my up brings and hard time without any Parental guideness back in my face, He would beat me up, call me bad and dirty names,disrespects me at any given moment, talkes bad about my family, treats me like his live in maid..So on and so forth..I can go on for hours about the mental, physical, emotional and verbal abuse I suffered at the hands of the man but I wont I will end this by saying that He told me this last time that we were soulmates and that is how I came to be writing this, I looked up the word and am glad I had already made the decision to leave this nightmare behind me.
—Guest Diva29

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