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Readers Respond: Tell Us About Your Virgo-Aquarius Relationship

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It's confusing

I am an Aquarius woman and I am currently "talking" to a virgo man. The reason I put quotations around the word "talking" is because our relationship is a bit confusing. Whenever we are around each other, we enjoy each other's company but he seems to give me mixed signals. Sometimes I feel like he likes me and sometimes I feel like he doesn't at all. But I am willing to find out! (:
—Guest Anonymous

Virgo drug

This Virgo man is like a drug. I can't figure out what he's thinking and whenever he reveals his feelings I'm even more lost and he refuses to help me understand. But I can't get enough of him. He's mean and rude but for some reason I'm already addicted. I don't know if Virgo man and Aquarius woman are a healthy match. I can't stop now. Did I mention it's only bee three weeks??.... .:/
—Guest Aquarius woman

Working out fine.

I'm a Virgo woman and my lover is an Aquarius woman. We get along just fine. We adore each others conversations. She at first been keeping an eye out for me for years without telling me. One day I finally took noticed when she befriended me. I played hard to get... This seemed to make her want me more. Yes the sexual chemistry is there, but being friendly and understanding makes the relationship better. The more you open to them quicker the better aswell, just try not to be too serious. Have a little fun with them. We had our arguments, thus was because I would date her. But yes I love how we can sexually joke around and yet have deep conversations at the same time. The mind plays a great role in this relationship, enhancing the physical chemistry.
—Guest Ms. S

Virgo Woman w/ Aquarius Man

The few success stories on this really make me happy because my aqua man and I are also doing well despite the compatability doubts. He is detached sometimes, but so am I. I like to have thinking time to myself and so does he. Despite not texting constantly like other signs I'm used to, he's the only one I can have a true intellectual convo w/. If you're a virgo woman just be patient. As it's been said before on these posts, PATIENCE IS KEY! I like a challenge and I like that he isn't always telling me what he's thinking. He's so quiet and calm and I'm rigorous and anxious and he balances me. He deeply wants to commit and we both believe we're soulmates as well as best friends. It all depends on the man! :)
—Guest Ashley

Confusing frustation

I as a Virgo 18 F, and he is Aquarius 18 M. We became friends started dating, got to know each other throughout the months of our last senior year in high school. We dated for a few months before we said our goodbyes and were sent off to college. After summer ended, he came barking up the tree again, of course an Aquarius for sex. Aquarian men are very confusing and yet so attractive, you'll tell yourself it's over and get over him, but once he's back you'll only want more. Stuck in a predicament sitting at 'Friends with benefits' Always makes me wonder 'what for'. Aquarius is afraid to commit, which is understandable being only 18. It's someone only time will tell, what will become of our strange hot and cold bond.
—Guest TiTi

I'm a Virgo and has dated a aquarius man

The aquarius man I dated for 12yrs. is selfish in so many ways.......Yea at first we was in love and nothin could break us apart but after a yearbi say this man had sex in our home with my bestfriend more then once and when I confronted them both they denied it untill I pissted my bestfriend off and she told me everything cause she was pissted off. I was gonna leave but of course he promised he would never cheat again but I say a few months after that he tried to mess with the neighbor......... But to make a long story short he never stopped cheating on me. I wanted us to work because we had kids together and I wanted my family to work. I was so stressed with this man.........I could not even have sex with him unless I had a strong drink in my system if u know what I mean........I loved this man so much that I stop loving myself. Thus aquarius man had it good........I took care of home and worked but let me complain he will walk.out on me and he will return like nothin happened.
—Guest Diamond34

Completely unsure of feelings

I am an Aquarius girl and I find a Virgo boy crazy attractive in the psychological way- but unbearably frustrating in the process of our ..acquaintance....if that makes any sense. He is highly intelligent, aloof, funny, unique, nature-loving. I am intelligent, aloof, unique, standoffish yet outgoing, and nature-loving. We are very similar, but maybe that is the reason why this is so confusing. I simply do not know what is going on inside his head. There are obvious signs that he liked me (this dates back to over a year ago if thats any understanding for how lonnng this confusion has been present) and we talked (high school, nothing mature), he did something that made me believe he liked me, but he didnt share it with me, i found it. Then we fell silent, i felt awkward because i didnt know how to reach out to him and i think he didnt know how to handle it either so it was just left alone- or he decided he didnt really like me anymore, im not sure. anyway, its still the same situation no
—Guest emile

Work It Out

I am a virgo lady. I have an aquarius boyfriend and weve been going strong for a year and 6 months now. We started off as friends. I eyed him once at work and couldnt stop. Id do whatever I could because he was so calm and handsome. He noticed me and suggested that we talked. He played the "too cool for you" role for about a month. We'd talk for a little and that would be it for the rest of the week. I gave up by December. His birth was the end of that January. I guess our little bit of convos were great because he started blowing me up once I gave in. 3 Days after January 29 we made it official. We had a really great bond and have an even better one now. Our sex is great, hes smart, Im smart. Everything is great. Yes we have our times where we dont want to be bothered but then we realized days or hours later that were only happy with eachother. Virgos and aquarius could be wonderful as long as they discuss it out. Hes really hard to handle and so am I but we talk and work things out
—Guest Virgo Lady

Very enticing but leads to no where

To make it short. I was looking for someone to confide in. We talked for days and hours about my problems. And somewhere in the talking he made it clear that he was sexually attracted to me but he wanted to help me and it wasn't all about the sex. It's not easy for a virgo to open up let alone give up the goods fast. And that's what happened. When asked where we stood. He said he wanted to be just friends. Just friends? You gotta be kidding me. I broke it off as quickly as it started. Virgos want it all or nothing! Make it clear from the get go. Don't waste our time. We don't believe in grey areas.
—Guest No bs Virgo

Virgo Woman ripped my heart out!

I'm an Aquarian man who fell for a Virgo woman..In the beginning we were a bit awkward but there was a friendly chemistry,I wanted her sexually..she turned me on so much.She wanted me to move in soon after we were officially a couple...but me being an independence loving aquarius kept putting it off...plus she didn't like how i was supportive of my child's mother who suffers from bi-polar disease. ..this combination eventually drove a wedge between us...but i remained loyal and supportive even after she denied me sex..after her father passed away things became even more strained between us...but we started to reconnect...but soon after that she said i should go back to my place and that she needed time and space to sort her life out and that our relationship lacked passion...but she assured me that this was not a breakup...It sure felt like it...and in the following weeks of no contact with her,i was crushed...she led me on to only say we should just be friends...RIPPED MY HEART OUT
—Guest HeartBroken

Virgo Woman ripped my heart out!

I'm an Aquarian man who fell for a Virgo woman..In the beginning we were a bit awkward but there was a friendly chemistry,I wanted her sexually..she turned me on so much.She wanted me to move in soon after we were officially a couple...but me being an independence loving aquarius kept putting it off...plus she didn't like how i was supportive of my child's mother who suffers from bi-polar disease. ..this combination eventually drove a wedge between us...but i remained loyal and supportive even after she denied me sex..after her father passed away things became even more strained between us...but we started to reconnect...but soon after that she said i should go back to my place and that she needed time and space to sort her life out and that our relationship lacked passion...but she assured me that this was not a breakup...It sure felt like it...and in the following weeks of no contact with her,i was crushed...she led me on to only say we should just be friends...RIPPED MY HEART OUT
—Guest HeartBroken

Virgo-Aquarius relationship

This nailed it. My ex boyfriend is an Aquarius and he was definitely a dreamer. One of my reasons for leaving was because of that. I couldn't seem to get him to stay grounded. I helped him a lot when it came to bettering himself. We were an odd match but we worked. An Aquarius will definitely let you know when they're into you. It's not hard to tell when they're in love. Patience is necessary for this relationship.
—Guest Virgo

Chemistry is real

Im a Virgo and ive known a Aquarius man for some years now, we've had several small chats every now and than, but for the first time he asked to chill with me, and i did because he was very attractive, and seemed like he'd be a cool person. When i came over he really wanted to play fight, and joke around alot, which i didn't really find funny, but then he asked for a massage, but i told him he had to give me one 1st and of course he did. He kissed and massaged my back so perfectly, turning my whole body in heat, i wanted him badly and he knew.. But i didn't give it up to him like my body begged, he didn't pressure me he just wanted to please, and satisfy me, which was exactly what happened, kissed me every where, loving on my body, sexual chemistry was definitely there!! I stopped before it went too far and left the next day he told me goodmorning, but afterwards we only had small talk, feels weird now, we were only friends, now my body is just lusting for his! Idk how to get his atten
—Guest kaykay

Aquarius and Virgo

I dated an Aquarius man for 6 years and initially everything was simply great and he was no doubt very flexible and open minded. But after sometime it was difficult to get along with him because he used to be detached and I was looking for emotional fulfillment. This was totally lacking in the relationship. He would tell me that I am perfect but when it came to action he would prefer to hang around with his friends who would use him. I can say he did not realise my value in spite of the sacrifices and compromises I made. Towards the end I felt very empty inside and could not look at him for support anymore. I was not important enough even though he alsways said it. I gave up a lot being the selfless virgo but at the end it was only about himself. So I walked out on him. I used to read a lot about aquarius and virgo compatibility but learnt it the hard way. I would just like to convey that it is better to be safe than sorry... But ofcourse there are always exceptions!
—Guest Lily

Aqua lover

my aqua lover is so sweet, he is having all behaviours which a typical aqua has, aloof, distant, stubborn, egoistic, intelligent, love sports, romantic, daring, bold, handsome,etc etc every time i fight wd himjust because of his aloofness,i want more and more time.em of 19 n he too of 19 nd he fight with me because he wants romance from me. I m romantic.And i love his romanticism, but i will never do romance before a perfect time,may be when we will engaged or married iknow he deadly loves me more than anyone .same here, he was having gfs before me, but not now, At the start of our relationship he hurts me alot alot, because of one another girl,who loves my aqua as well,i was in fear of loosing him,but now he is in fear of loosing me i clearify to him,if he continue to hurt me, i will leave him and there are many who waits for me,today he told me that he is completely broken because of my these words,and that he loves me,and wants me,he is very social and practical
—Guest Haya

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