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abusive virgo man

I am a scorpio woman and married a virgo man. the first couple of years were really great- he was romantic, love letters and all, constantly told me I was beautiful... and I had never felt so loved by anyone in my life. Fast forward a few years and the man became a pattern domestic abuser: physical emotional, sexual, you name it. I stayed for a couple years, for lots of reasons but one that people don't talk about as much is the sheer confusion- it took me a long time to realize that the 'bad guy' he finally showed to me was the real him and the nice guy was just an act. The man is a complete narcissist, every checklist out there he fits to a T. Being a scorpio of course, being abused didn't mix well with me, the relationship was extremely turbulent as I would not quietly submit with consistency although I tried to to keep the peace. When I confronted him about being abusive he twisted it back on me! GASLIGHTING, smear campaigns, extreme dependency and insecurity, backstabbing, lies!
—Guest Lauren

My Virgo Man

I'm a classic Scorpio women with a sweet Virgo partner. We've been together for a few years, and I've Had intense feelings to leave and complete surrender to stay. I've found the commitment fills me up inside and I feel safe. I know he will never cheat, (he wouldn't anyways cause he'd be too scared of what I might do ha ha lol). Anyways I find I'm super emotional about certain things and he's so cool in his emotional responses, I have to remind myself he's human. He always calms me down now that we know eachother better, because it's taken me a long time to trust him, naturally cause I'm a Scorpio. Anyhow, I find the biggest areas we have to work on are emotional communication and sex. It's taken me a while to not be offended by his very Virgo responses in sexuality. But I've learnt to tone down my suspicions. He's probably more outgoing than I am, but were both hermit like so we agree like heck on so many things. I'm looking forward to planning my future together with my good ol Virgo
—Guest Anna

Shes my Everything

all i can say is I LOVE MY VIRGO WOMAN SOOOOO MUUCHH!!!!!
—Guest Xes

Past, Present, Future

I was in a Virgo relationship for about 2 and a half years. At the beginning of the relationship. We were so close we felt like we were two friends underneath a quilt and sharing all our most intimate moment. The sex was transcendental and we were so in love and we had a solid friendship. Then she found my adult film collection. She instantly started to feel insecure and called it cheating. I deleted all the porn but the relationship never totally recovered. I had few to no problems with her and for 2 years she remained a tenuous friend. She was the most beautiful girl I have ever dated and the most insecure. She would displace, criticize and blame me for most of her short comings. In fact I had no problems with her. She would make me so wary of reprisals I would be dishonest with her to keep the peace. She eventually left me. I miss her terribly, she would say the break up was my fault, but then again? Everything was my fault in her eyes. I still miss her and it's been 2 years.
—Guest Davros

Past, Present, Future

I was in a Virgo relationship for about 2 and a half years. At the beginning of the relationship. We were so close we felt like we were two friends underneath a quilt and sharing all our most intimate moment. The sex was transcendental and we were so in love and we had a solid friendship. Then she found my adult film collection. She instantly started to feel insecure and called it cheating. I deleted all the porn but the relationship never totally recovered. I had few to no problems with her and for 2 years she remained a tenuous friend. She was the most beautiful girl I have ever dated and the most insecure. She would displace, criticize and blame me for most of her short comings. In fact I had no problems with her. She would make me so wary of reprisals I would be dishonest with her to keep the peace. She eventually left me. I miss her terribly, she would say the break up was my fault, but then again? Everything was my fault in her eyes. I still miss her and it's been 2 years.
—Guest Davros

scorpio woman/virgo man

I'm the scorpio woman who words r always analyzed. he makes me feel like i'm no match 4 his perfect world filled with critical comments with a smile.that hurts.he is attentive very much so.he just blows up over small stuff.ruffle feathers then hides his hand.killing the passion i had only for him!
—Guest michelle

Scorpio Girl & Virgo Boy

Well I just started talking to this Virgo, he's real nice & gives me lots of attention - witch I like, we use to talk before this but my crazy little tempers got us to seperate & I still liked him very much but I kept on running away from him. But now that I gave him a chance to know me more he is freakingly nice & awesome. I tend to rush things & have lots of trust issues, also every hard to be in a serious relationship & i tend to get confused very much and I get mad about that. But I just hope I get over that, I'm truthful, faithful, lovely and nice unless you try me, but me & him are doing great. Hope our relationships goes futher (:
—Guest Crissy

my scorpio and me

i tend to find my scorpio partner quite childish hes 10 years older then me an has his moments of the silliest things although it makes me laugh at times it can be quiet annoying. hes not romantic atall but hes quiet sincere in the sexual mode. i strongly agree with the sharp stares we do it all the time he knows when my eyes have changed colour like yestoday he noticed in the space of 3hours they had gone from hazel to green an gold was quiet freaky as i never realised how much he actually looked in my eyes like that. im the virgo and i have a tendancy to go quiet alot and he gets paranoid and assumes something is wrong its like if im not all over him somethings not right quiet mad really. hes very giving will never see me without as i do not see him without but threw all i have to say were perfect. we give and take in all areas when we disagree we dont clash we find a common ground.
—Guest natasha

scorpio girl & virgo man

i am in relationship wid virgo man abot 3 years...but now our relation is become too much weak..i tried to bring him again..but he is totallly changed....but i love him alooot...but he not loves me...i understand this reality now....& now i am too much hurted :(.
—Guest jiya

Don't know how to be with out him

I've been dating this Scorpio on and off for 10 months. I can't seem to shake him. He doesn't trust me, he says he doesn't know why a women who look let me would want him. When I say I love him he says I think I love him. I'm a 49 year old women I know what love is. We were together it's great but when we get close he distances himself. It hurt you I can't shake him. No reason to discuss the sex. Wow is all I can say.I just hope one day he believes in my love
—Guest In love his over take me

Scorpio and Virgo

I am the virgo my bf is the scorpio. Seems like we fight nonstop but the make-up sex is incredible. He is by far the best sex partner I've ever had. He's very nonchalant about everything and that bothers me. Hopefully he'll open up eventually and realize that Im in it to win it.
—Guest Iffey

Virgo female scorpio man

I've been talking to this scorpio for four months now, but we just officially started dating for two weeks now. I was so unsure in the beginning as far as his feeling for me. Im the type of person who's good at reading ppl but he is so hard to read. Recently he called me to tell me he was coming over to tell me something.. I thought it was to break up, but it was to tell me how special i am to him and his feelings for me are growing. What a BIG difference, but thats what i mean. He is so unpredictable, it drives me crazy. He told me yesterday he loved me, and thinks about me all the time. But we never get any outside time with each other because he is so dedicated to his work. Which im not complaining about, but it takes away from our time to spend with each other. I don't mind the takeout and movies at home, but im scared it may get old too fast. He is a great guy but i wish he didn't have such a temper and express himself more than he does.
—Guest Shari

best relationship : )

I'm a scorpio and my soon to be wife is a virgo and I love her. Like some of the others said there are arguments that come up BUT we never stay mad at each for long. Maybe about a hour or two. Sex is the best I've ever had and the loyalty and love is also. She is my soul mate. Couldn't ask for a better woman.
—Guest moonman

Scorpio woman Virgo man

I love my man everything is great on nd off idk I really believes he doesn't trust me nd that its hard for him to open up to me but im always there for him nd that will never change
—Guest t

Love, love and more love.

I am a Scorpio woman and he is a Virgo man. We have been together for almost two years now and we love it. Him being Virgo, he always has my back. Also, virgo's can be needy and me being Scorpio, I love to fill his needs as Scorpio often feel complete when helping others or making their partners happy. Our relationship is a two-way street. All together, you get what you give out of the relationship. We both have an understanding for each other, as virgo's are perfectly content by themselves as scorpios are, sometimes. You two will never be bored. Whether you choose to go out for a night on the town, or decide to stay in for some movies, you won't bore each other. There is an unexplainable chemistry between the two. Both being ambitious and full of adventure, absolutely anything is possible with the couple. The two together can make the perfect life with each other. :)
—Guest Courtney

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