Aries is sexy, because they project big confidence, even if they don't feel it inside. In a world of conformity, the Ram does his or her own thing. Aries is a do-er, not a talker, and this inspires respect. The defiant individuality is attractive, and catalyzes others to hold fast to their own inner impulses. Aries is a light that warms everyone up, but often burns.
Aries is a truly lusty sign. And being action oriented, the Ram goes after what he or see wants. If you're being pursued by an Aries, you know what I'm talking about. It's urgent, startling and makes you feel like a golden prize.
Aries often has a flushed face from being on the move. The look is direct, and piercing. The flirtation is overtly sexual, to the point of being brutishly crude (especially in the male Ram). Aries can have a touch of arrogance, which is a turn-on to some, since it seems to imply they're superior. Aries loves to be top dog, and power is an aphrodisiac.
What's attractive to many, is the Aries vitality. Long after others have left the party, Aries is dancing on, or wondering what else is going on around town. Aries drive gives them physical endurance in sex, and the ability to get their mate fired up.
Aries attracts through personal charisma -- often they're loud and constantly making their presence known in a group setting. They get slaphappy and have a joie de vivre that's contagious. Aries people are fun to be around, and never boring. They are instigators, and a date with Aries can be jam-packed, and involve being in hotbeds of activity.
Aries are passionate creatures. The men have great machismo and swagger, and the women are ballsy. Aries is the most masculine of signs, making for the man's man, and the assertive woman that inspires awe and/or fear. Both Aries men and women need partners that can meet their strength of will, or they lose interest. They light up any moment with their big personality. They love the chase, and the promise of winning. But they're notorious for losing interest, once the prize is won.
Aries likes sexually confident lovers. They want a partner in adventure. They are turned off by insecurity, too much emotion or overanalyzing. They are instinctual, and act on gut feelings. Aries lovers are demanding, but the demand comes from their own nature, which is one of relentlessly pressing into new experiences. They do it up big, and are generous with those they love.
The flame burns bright, but when it's gone out, it's hard to rekindle it. Keep Aries interest by being a bold sparring partner, and continually having fresh looks and your own happenings going-on.