What You're Like:
If your Venus is in Gemini, you're talkative, curious and a bit of a social chameleon. You have one pinky toe in many circles, and find them depending on your mood. You keep a light hold on people, and don't like anything too formalized or planned out.
Friends Say You're hilarious, charismatic; socially curious; flexible about plans.
Frenemies Say You're socially awkward; nervous; insincere; casual about love; unfaithful.
Quality and Element:
In Love and Romance:
You're drawn to clever partners, with whom you can carry on a non-sequiter running dialogue of observations. Someone that makes you laugh gets extra points. You're hard to pin down, and will escape anything too limiting or emotionally heavy. You don't like routine, especially when it comes to affection. When playing the field, you could spread yourself thin, and miss out on intimacy.
You're a fun, lively friend that always has the lowdown on the latest gossip, parties, movies, etc. Your social network is vast, and you've got up-to-the minute information on everybody. That's because you're always gathering tidbits, and then sharing them. You're spontaneous, and jump on invites, as long as there's an opening on your calendar.
You're a wordsmith, so it makes sense that you're good at creative writing. But your verbal expression serves you in many fields, and is your gift in the moment. Like a comedian, a storyteller, communication is your artform. Fashion is another area, where your eye for "what works" and whimsical outlook can bring success.
The Big Attraction:
You are bright-eyed and quick to laugh, making you easy to spend lots of time with. You know how to draw out what's funny in the moment, and toss it about in conversation. Humor is a bridge between people, and you do this without even realizing it.
Winning Your Heart:
You're drawn to those that have lots of curious things to say. You don't hang around rigid or dogmatic people too long before feeling trapped. You like partners that suggest outrageous dates, with extra points for spontaneity. You'll cozy up to lovers that are tapped into the world of ideas, someone you can take rambling journeys of the mind with. You appreciate variety in a mate, and a lover with many tricks and games in the bedroom keeps you interested. You like to flirt, and are not shy to tell someone how you feel. But you won't want to be locked into a heavy mood of deep sharing for too long.
You've got a light way, and this puts people at ease. You're on the intellectual side, and might meet at a book club, a reading, or in the magazine rack. An ideal date is one where the conversation pops and you are alive with new realizations. You're naturally curious about people, but especially those that seem to have contradictory personalities.
Your Venus has a reputation as one of those that spreads their love around generously. The extreme of this is infidelity, where there's a commitment and betrayal of it.
In your case, it could be having several friends you flirt with, seeing if there's more there. You might not be emotionally invested, but more sensitive lovers could be expecting something exclusive. If you're in a stage of dating a lot of people, be sure to be clear with those you meet. A shadow trait of Gemini is to have an evil twin, and in love, this could mean being duplicitous. As you become aware of different personalities you show in love, you can be honest and your partner knows where you stand.